Ok, I give up... Where to meet girls?

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Munchy

Munchy

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I give up!

In all seriousness, the reasons why I find it hard meeting girls:

1. Go to school, but only one class a week, not much opportunity there. Plus, no group projects or anything like that so it's useless until I start taking more classes I guess.
2. At work, I prefer not to go that route, but it's not like the opportunity is there anyways.
3. My friends are pretty much useless to this cause cause they're either single themselves or we just don't "mingle" enough out of our own group.
4. Don't get out to "public" places as much other than restos and the such. Mainly just chill at a friend's place every weekend. Don't really club that much anymore, but many people will agree that clubbing is completely useless to meet people.

Your thoughts + input?

Thanks.
 
I can give you input on my experiences but they're going to differ greatly, I'm a big dude and chicks these days aren't really down with that... I hear bullshit all the time " Yeah dude you're a big teddy bear chicks love that shit" or "Oh come on Mike you're a great looking guy blah blah blah" bullshit like that pisses me off. Also people shouldn't jump to the conclusion that I have no confidence, I have confidence...Absolutely no problem talkin to any type of girl I just think It's really the physical attraction factor.

One of the biggest things I've recently noticed over the last year or so about women from montreal - I'd say a good 80% of them are stuck up fucking cunts. Straight up! Out right Stuck up bitches. Absolutely *Avoid* Skanky dressing girls, They might seem sexy but they're craving more attention than a cake at a little kids party. They lack confidence big time, They dress like trailer trash hoes to get noticed and put on 3 lbs of makeup on, They're usually dumber than a brick wall and they're boring as all hell.

Now the other 20% of girls in MTL - They're either already taken or lesbians lol. Yes I Know women say "OMG most great guys in MTL are either taken or gay!" Which is actually kinda true but whatever I guess it goes both ways. I've met maybe a handful of girls that were actually VERY Good relationship material, They were smart as hell, Very good looking(A couple were average), Very great personalities had good opinions on topics, These are the types of girls you want a Relationship with...


Now for the type of girl you want to meet... That depends greatly, When you go to a bar and you see a chick sitting around bored watching their friends dance on the dancefloor, Go talk to her... At least try It won't hurt. Depending on what you want out of a girl, If you want a relationship that might be able to have a long lasting chance bars/clubs aren't the best place to look for a long term companion, They're fantastic for finding FWB's though, Or just short term things.

Seriously the best way to find a half decent girl is probably either school or going shopping. If you're shoppin at Fairview and you see a lady you might like hell ask her out to lunch or something. At school, Just get to know girls... If you're any fun they'll probably wanna hang out etc... Just make your intentions right - Be very specific with what you want and don't fall into the fucking friends zone - There's no coming out.


Good luck dude! :p
 
ses toujours a des place quon sent attend le moin ...

mais tsé defois dans les pub ses cool avec les friend et ya defois des groupe de fille et quand il se tienne la ses pas des club whore qui veule de l'attention..

moi perso j'ai rencontré une fille a l'endroit le plus inatendu ... je suis allé au milinium (le pire des club whore club jcroi bien) et apres au mp3 pour lafter .. vu une belle fille pas abillé en pute mais crisement belle avec un groupe de fille .. bon jvais lui parlé passé le reste de la soiré a dansé avec le groupe de fille avec mes 2 chum pas de colage rien

jlui ai reparlé un peu mais apres pu de contact pour lété elle as passé lété au perou , voila 1mois et demi que je lui reparle et tout semble bien allé sa avance on ses revu quelque fois , je croiyais quelle avait 24ans mais en fin de compte elle as 28 :O .. mais jai 21 , sagit de bien agir et tu va voir l'age le style ou whatever a rien a voir

nimporte ou il as des occasion


fait a noté elle ne vien pas de montreal , et ses vrai que les fille de montréal son assé weird...

je sais pas quelle age as tu mais les fille debut 20ene ... presque a oublié son telement imature maintenant en plus de juste vouloir que tu leur paye des truc
 
ouiii c est vraii , les filles de mtll , c est dure . plus , troo de pute pour les style gangsta .
 
SRB-TEAM said:
ouiii c est vraii , les filles de mtll , c est dure . plus , troo de pute pour les style gangsta .
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che pas trop quel genre de fille tu regarde....mais moi quand elles voient un yo elle se mette toute a rire de lui...c'est tellement 2001 les yo c fini la.

and btw munchy....dont look for girls....girls come to you. that's how it works
 
If you're looking for a serious relationship  - than clubs/bars are usually worthless. These places are great for finding a one nght stand though!
... School is a really great place to start, plenty of girls and they already have something in common with you (going to the same school), otherwise
I would recommend just going out more often... go shopping to a local market, malls, take a stroll with your buddy down the old port or Sainte-Catherine street, coffee shops downtown and near university campuses are great places to meet girls.

In a bar/club/party environment chicks expect to get approached and many of them put up the rejection field (or they have friends who act like cock blockers)
but it is somehwat rare for a girl to get approached on the street, they appreciate this more. So yeah, basically go out more often during day time if you're lookign for a gf.
 
^^^ Id have to agree almost 100%!!! if ur looking for any type of girl university campuses are great!!! EXEPT Mcgill........uptight bitches!!!! They expect u to bend over backwards for them!!!! Coffee shops are slighty too "clichee"...........my opinion anyways!!!
 
Volunteer, SPCA, fostering dogs, whatever, theres tons of young chicks wanting to help out volunteering, you might run into one of them and be helping out a good cause.
 
RMachucaA said:
Volunteer, SPCA, fostering dogs, whatever, theres tons of young chicks wanting to help out volunteering, you might run into one of them and be helping out a good cause.
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I 've volunteered for 2 years at the SPCA  - never met a cute girl there...
 
alexs464 said:
[mrquote userid="31112" username="RMachucaA" forum="252" thread="678175" message="7100811" ] Volunteer, SPCA, fostering dogs, whatever, theres tons of young chicks wanting to help out volunteering, you might run into one of them and be helping out a good cause.
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I 've volunteered for 2 years at the SPCA  - never met a cute girl there...[/mrquote]

just in one month, i've run into 3 good candidates helping out dog rescue agencies, plus i havent even been looking out, since im married :p, if i was single i could have spotted more probably.
 
If your current social circle becomes stagnant when it comes to meeting quality women.. you need to simply extend your circle.
Befriend, befriend, befriend.

Hypothetical scenario.
You meet a girl, lets call her Jessica. You're not attracted to her or she is not your type.. doesn't mean she isn't worthy to get to know. Through her, you can meet her cousin, her sister, her friends, her school friends, etc. If not, you've still extended your social network and it has its benefits.. i.e finding a new job, getting a hookup at a store, advice, wtv.. you get my point.

Point is.. Cold approaches in clubs/bars is really hit or miss.. but most likely its a miss.

Social circle meeting is the way to go. Adopt the mentality that when you befriend people, you're opening doors to make connections/networks to more people.

Most guys who have a quality girlfriend have met her through friends or basically through his network. Lets not exaggerate this by saying be friends with every single person in the world.. but a lot of the problem resides in the fact that most people have their own click, anyone else that is not in interest to them.. they block the opportunity to befriend them and invariably inhibit them to meet new and interesting people.

Good luck.
 
In short, if you've skipped my long post...

- A woman who is single, attractive, has the qualities you like - the probability of meeting her + when you're single = low.

However, increasing your social circle increases the probability of meeting that girl.
Not increasing your social circle keeps that probability very low of meeting that girl. (Leaving it all to chance)
 
Lucky_Luciano said:
In short, if you've skipped my long post...

- A woman who is single, attractive, has the qualities you like - the probability of meeting her + when you're single = low.

However, increasing your social circle increases the probability of meeting that girl.
Not increasing your social circle keeps that probability very low of meeting that girl. (Leaving it all to chance)
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very true.. as I get older cough... lol I find people set you up. Problem is most guy and girls can't be friends. As he said find chicks weather nice, hot or ugly who cares and they can lead you in..... They need your help as much as you do to find a dude. Hopefully then don't fall in love with you because then it becomes tricky... My problem is I become their friend and at one point i end up banging them and then it's back to 0. I went shopping this weekend at Rockland and man their is hottiezzzzzz
 
I've met some hotties on Reseau contact but didn't click for me. I am starting to do the 5@7 so I'll let you know. Do you want to be my wing man ?
 
I understand the social circle concept, but I guess in my situation I'll have to change the circle for it to extend.

I'm trying to hang out with more people to work, of course in the hopes to meet people I don't work with.

dunno
 
Dude I am in the same situation than you, but even worse. Let me put you guys in the context: I love cars (playing around cars) and BMX, so I usally dress kinda like skaters, when I start college I saw TONS of hawt chicks at school...and I was like shit man, they're dress to well for me...so I spend a HUGE amount of money into nice clothes! Guess what? It didn't help me out with chicks + than even ignore me (I know I am not a 10/10, at least a 7.599/10 on good days).

I was dammn insecure and I didn't feel good about myself...I know this is cheesy but, how the heck you want someone like you if you don't even like yourself! So I threw all this shitty clothes and I came back with my old clothes...way more confortable (now I am able to get dirty without the psycoside of nice clothes = ALWAYS PERFECTLY CLEAN).

And about girls, well I don't there's too much fake nowadays, still gonna try to hangout with chicks in the ultimate goal '' a long term relationship'' but I gonna choose very very CAREFULLY!

And now it's all about stay true to myself!
 
^be yourself man,

dont dress to impress, best advice

btw, there is some nice skate clothes,
 
Work man.. nothing wrong with dating someone from work!
It's a great place to meet girls, u have relatively the same hours, chit chat on breaks, do casual lunches, maybe drinks after... just dont be working too close with her in case things fail.
If u dont see any prospects at work, try ur friends from work.. maybe they got a hot sister they've been hiding in the closet? Maybe they got a friend who's just ur type? The idea here is to expand ur circle of friends; so doing more social activities with ur coworkers can maybe help u out.
My sis met her husband at work. She didnt date him off the bat but after moving on to another job they kept in touch n yada yada yada they're married now.

It's funny but u really can meet girls ANYWHERE.. i met this one girl at the SAAQ from all places!
If ur lazy, there's always fb :p
 
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