1) Reconsidering--- quite a bit of pros and cons data to go over on Lighweight flywheels.
Driveline balancing is key here...especially at high rpm.
2) Checking harmonic damper, without a mechanic :
(Still ,would strongly recommend a professional opinion.)
Source: http://www.e46fanatics.com/forum/showpost.php?p=12625514&postcount=2
With 8 years and 100k miles on your car, it wouldn't hurt anything other than your wallet to replace all the rubber bits. The part itself is rather expensive but the labor to replace it isn't too bad. Mine was shot at 90k miles although I'm sure the presence of a SC'er probably reduced its service life. While not easy to diagnose, things you might notice without removing it from the car would be the rubber ring starting to pull out or a wobble in the crank pulley (shine a flashlight down at the pulley while the engine is running and have someone goose the throttle - in neutral of course). When mine failed, there was a very noticeable wobble. Replacing the damper definitely reduced the vibration I was experiencing but it wasn't the source of the problem. More on that in a bit....
Source:
http://www.m3forum.net/m3forum/showthread.php?t=326722&page=4
Noticed a clank clank noise and immediatley inspected. Found the bolts that secure the dampener to the crank to be loose
Not sure how or why, they were all new hardware and torqued to spec. I am going to red locktite them in place today.
Personally, I would change it anyway.Rubber ages dries up and becomes brittle.
Preventative maintenance. *tu*
Dave S