What are girls attracted to?

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ThePapi

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- What do you think will attract a girl to you?

- How do you approach them in order to make yourself attractive to them?

- Do you think girls look for physique before anything else?

I'm no ladies man, but I really enjoy striking conversations with random girls to see where that could lead. I don't collect phone numbers, I tend to like e-mails better.

For me : Eye contact, humor, playfulness and some arrogance works wonders. I'm skinny but I keep myself in shape and I'm happy with how I look.

I don't think girls want good looks nearly as much as guys. that's especially true outside of clubs and bars. Also there's a line between being fairly ugly and looking neglected. An ugly guy can get by, while a good looking hippie is still a smelly bastard and will mostly attract only other hippies. In my opinion and from experience, an ugly guy that keeps himself looking sharp has more chances to hit a nice girl than a neglected bum trying to play bad boy.

Discuss, that's always a great fucking subject.
 
je pense que le physique a rien a voir, je pense que meme si tes gros laid plein de bouton avec une bosse dans le dos. t'as rien qu'a faire des bonnes jokes, des ptis sourirs en coins, avoir un peu d'arrogance une bonne confiance en toi et tu vas pouvoir te faire toutes les filles dans 99.02 % des cas. Faite moi confiance !
 
- Cest sure que le physique rentre en compte quand meme beacoup pour au moins 98% des filles ( il y a toujours des exeptions) , mais sa reste que meme si tes le plus beau gars du monde et que tu semble pas interessant sa sert a rien(Example : tes dans un bar et tu parle pas beacoup et ta laire vedge/triste/plate etc etc) ...sa attire personne


- Personellment sa commence toujours avec le regard , si elle ta pas dans leoil cest foutue... pour lapproche ben sa vien toute seul



ThePapi said:
Si t'es gros laid et plein de bouton tu te néglige, tu n'a rien compris.
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buhahaha trop daccord
 
Tu devrais etre motivateur pour des groupes de rencontre... Jsais que t capable ! jvois beaucoup de potentiel en toi ...
 
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sleepingblacksir said:
- Cest sure que le physique rentre en compte quand meme beacoup pour au moins 98% des filles ( il y a toujours des exeptions) , mais sa reste que meme si tes le plus beau gars du monde et que tu semble pas interessant sa sert a rien(Example : tes dans un bar et tu parle pas beacoup et ta laire vedge/triste/plate etc etc) ...sa attire personne


- Personellment sa commence toujours avec le regard , si elle ta pas dans leoil cest foutue... pour lapproche ben sa vien toute seul






buhahaha trop daccord
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C,est ca je dis, si tu attires pas la fille physiquement, dans la plupart des cas c'est pas des tite jokes qui vont t'aider.
Je dis pas que ca peu pas marcher, mais va falloir que tu la travails pas mal...
 
ThePapi said:
L'attitude générale compte plus que le physique *tu*
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Je dis pas le contraire, mais si la fille a un choix a faire un une bonne attitude et un 4/10 et une attitude pas pire et un 8/10. Jcrois que la bonne attitude va prendre le bord.
 
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Moi je pense pas que le physique est important dans le sense que, pas a cause que tu es skinny que tu pognes pas ou que tu es super beef que tu pognes. C'est une balance...je connais plein de bodybuilder qui pogne pas pcq ils shabillent comme des bum...pour sa que j'aime sa bien m'habiller de un sa me fait resortir des autres skaters autours de moi (rien contre eux, jhabille en skater de temps en temps).
 
labatt50 said:
funny how nobody mentionned $$$

lots of girl are attracted to money... unfortunatly
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I never really beleived money was an advantage


Most girls i picked either had one of these attitudes
-Ohhh you dont understand what its like your life was easy and you have everything you want (I work 6 days a week LOLL)
-You clearly see they want too see you because they like the lifestyle
-She thinks your a show-off

And only a few rare girls actually see you for who you are...and even then your never sure LOL
 
ThePapi said:
- What do you think will attract a girl to you?

- How do you approach them in order to make yourself attractive to them?

- Do you think girls look for physique before anything else?

I'm no ladies man, but I really enjoy striking conversations with random girls to see where that could lead. I don't collect phone numbers, I tend to like e-mails better.

For me : Eye contact, humor, playfulness and some arrogance works wonders. I'm skinny but I keep myself in shape and I'm happy with how I look.

I don't think girls want good looks nearly as much as guys. that's especially true outside of clubs and bars. Also there's a line between being fairly ugly and looking neglected. An ugly guy can get by, while a good looking hippie is still a smelly bastard and will mostly attract only other hippies. In my opinion and from experience, an ugly guy that keeps himself looking sharp has more chances to hit a nice girl than a neglected bum trying to play bad boy.

Discuss, that's always a great fucking subject.
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1- Confidence = Key of success

2- depend on girls, but usually the mature they get, the more they look for the personnality

The best advice i can give to you, is practice.

I dont know how old are you, but if you are in the age of clubbing go practice there, is a great play field.

SMILE AND CONFIDENCE = SUCCESS

The day you will accept rejection with a smile is the day you will start to get confidence. So be prepared for rejection its part of the learning curve.

Respect the ladies, not because she reject you that she is a slut, evryone has different taste, so dont be afraid of rejection.

Have a good time with them, make them laught.

For the rest it really dpend on the type of girl

ex: playing the hard to get only work on superficial girl
 
Im not the fittest guy (im not obese either) and i NEVER struggled to find\have a date or a steady gf, fact is most of them wanted me more then i wanted them.

I believe the key to this is that you arent desperate for finding someone, if you are, it shows and women are naturally repelled by it.

In my experience, what women look for most (normal girls, no skanks or money hungry chicks, never approached them, you can spot them from a mile away) is a good personality, a sense of humor, decent looks, and groundedness, and most importantly... you know yourself, so you dont need to put up an act to attract women, i guess this could also be classified as self confidence.
 
aside the obviously physical attraction. u just need to be able to be witty/ funny/ good conversationalist and the trick is done. as long as you can keep their attention your in. as soon as you show open up everything to them forget it. you need some mystery too
 
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