Whiteknight getting ownnnn

Carbon_Blue_GT said:
Well he suck. Unless some part of the story were cut, I don't see anything from the girl that suggest interest. She barely speaks to him.
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Well yeah it's pretty much one way desperation on his part...

You gotta try it on before you can say it's gonna work.
 
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To begin with..this post applies directly to this thread:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2011/06/01/white-knighting-explained/

Small Excerpt from that post...

There is a popular theory that white knighters — those men who jump at the chance to defend the virtue of women at every opportunity, no matter if the defense is warranted — are beta males who hope their stirring gallantry will get them into women’s panties. Offering a shoulder to cry on or an indignant word after an asshole hurts the girl of their dreams, these men turn themselves into emotional tampons with the goal of sneaking into the pussy when she is at her most vulnerable.

They usually fail, but they keep at it because once in a blue moon, it works. Yes, most men with some choice in women would balk at spending so much time and effort trying to tap a reticent snatch, and at the cost of so much dignity, but the white knighter emo dude has the patience of a saint. Or a eunuch.

But, honestly, how many guys like this do you see in real life? They exist, sure, but not in the numbers assumed. Especially after college, when adult men simply don’t have the time to waste on platonically orbiting a oneitis who can juggle ten blue balls at once.

Instead, I’d like to offer some different explanations for the white knight phenomenon.
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I think people need to be careful with this kind of read.

He's really flying out on a limb about alpha/beta shit, just like everybody else trying to circumvent, assess or simply talk about alpha/beta shit when it doesn't make or break an individual in any domain, and when everyone has a different definition or opinion on it anyways...

Not a bad read but not much to learn there. He's just describing shitty people and shitty situations and stamping alpha/beta monikers around like discount stickers on spoiled food at the grocery store.

Better learn to do your own thing than trying to fall into a mold that will make you question yourself constantly.

I believe it's like everything in life and here's what I mean :

For example, when everyone in the world knows what a "white knight" is, every needy fuck on earth will turn 180 degrees, posture around and act like an asshole to come across as the opposite of a white night. According to this article, an alpha male. The word alpha will be slung around even more than today by even more clueless kids looking for validation, and just like the cocky/funny, negging, tactics, kino, mystery method and every other fad that comes and goes in this community, will eventually turn out to be a joke by naturals who don't understand why people need tactics to interact with human beings.

White knighting is very real, but it's just an offshoot of the real issue that many men face, whatever image they are trying to project, more or less successfully : Neediness.

A man that does his own thing and is not needy, wether he falls into one individual's definition of alpha or not, has what it takes to succeed and wether you like it or not, it's true.

I'll be watching the show from the sideline and smirk, just like always...

EDIT : I don't want to hi-jack this awesome thread. Alpha/Beta bullshit should be done in another one.
 
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Some people don't realize that being nonchalant and being a rude douche is not the same thing.

Just like some think that not being an asshole to a woman makes you a white knight.

What's bad are the extremes... You want to be confident, but not cocky. You want to be nice, but not a push-over. You want to be independent, but not a loner. You want to be jacked, but still able to wipe your own ass. You want to be nonchalant, but not an asshole. Etc...
 
logik23 said:
Some people don't realize that being nonchalant and being a rude douche is not the same thing.

Just like some think that not being an asshole to a woman makes you a white knight.

What's bad are the extremes... You want to be confident, but not cocky. You want to be nice, but not a push-over. You want to be independent, but not a loner. You want to be jacked, but still able to wipe your own ass. You want to be nonchalant, but not an asshole. Etc...
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Shades of gray...
 
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