Friendzone compilation

So, question of the day, do you think the friendzone exists ? Srs question is srs.

I personnally think it exists, and it will occur when the girl says you are perfect but refuses to date.
Share your ideas of it ? No homo, no wk, no phaggot.

If you think so, share your ideas on how to get out of it as i'm sure there's a couple of unlucky bastards browsing the relationship forums
in hopes of extra help.

I think it exists. But if you state your intentions right away you'll never be in it. Getting out of it is very hard though. Get some distance, come back in a year or so with I don't know a new job or a new condo. Haven't been friendzoned since I was 18 though so I don't quite remember my exact state of mind at the time, but I think that's pretty much it.

Attorney said:

I personnally think it exists, and it will occur when the girl says you are perfect but refuses to date.

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Fuck that!! one of my girl friend told me that last week!

She was like: You're such a perfect guy! You're kind, you're good looking, you're funny but we will never be together! BUT we sometime have sex lol(weird friendzone)

But this kind of discussion really pisses me off

As (probably) stated by the great and almighty EV: "Friendzone is for those who are beta as fuck"

I don't know what that means cause I don't lift, but I agree with it.

DJD&G said:

Fuck that!! one of my girl friend told me that last week!

She was like: You're such a perfect guy! You're kind, you're good looking, you're funny but we will never be together! BUT we sometime have sex lol(weird friendzone)

But this kind of discussion really pisses me off

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Oh well you're luckier, it's not exactly the friendzone, since you banged her.

It's normal to be friends with women, but i gotta feel your pain when she says you're perfect but refuses to date (Especially when you're hitting on her in the first place) lol


About Le Jour: I agree completely, the friendzone happens, and i have seen many guys complain like bitches over it.

But here's my advice: Stop being a little bitch, step your game up, go hit the gym, change your clothes, then start considering picking up women.

If you get friendzoned, 99% of the time it's because she's not sexually attracted to you at all, but any ugly faggot can turn decent looking with a little work and life changes.

srs.

Only beta get friendzoned

Say your intentions very early


Never got friendzoned since im 17

Attorney said:

It's normal to be friends with women

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no. this is why the friend-zone exists in the first place. There is no valid reason to be friends with a woman. Men and women are completely different and do not have enough common interests to be friends. I'd say you need a minimum of 5 VERY DEEP interests that match for a friendship to even bloom, and it's just not supposed to happen between sexes. The only time a "by-default" friendship could form is when the involved woman is a friend of your girlfriend/wife, or she is the relative of a good friend of yours. When the existing relationship (with a woman, or the friendship with a bro) ends, so does the "friendship" you had with the other woman.


The friend-Zone DOES exist,but I've noticed that's it always "gamma" guys who end up their....for lack of a better word. Even "beta" guys are"man" enough to not end up there.

Note to DJD&G, if you've seen the junk, you're not in the friend-zone. You're a special ops soldier. lol. Also, that girl is a whore.

RaptorJesus said:

I think FZ only exists because guys let themselves be put there.

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imo it's more because ur lacking something they want . Ur good looking , ur kind etc etc but ur broke . U got money ur kind etc etc but ur ugly . If they don't date u it's because they are holding out for something a bit better in their mind.

DJD&G said:

Fuck that!! one of my girl friend told me that last week!

She was like: You're such a perfect guy! You're kind, you're good looking, you're funny but we will never be together! BUT we sometime have sex lol(weird friendzone)

But this kind of discussion really pisses me off

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Im in the exact same situation haha

once I have been friendzoned and never ever again I was a bitch, loved that girl, and in return nada I fucked my self during the processe of hitting on here. She told me stuff like your good looking bla bla bla best friend( she knew I loved here ) and at a momment I juste stoped giving a fuck about here, and I started fucking her female friends that was worth it.

RaptorJesus said:

I think FZ only exists because guys let themselves be put there.

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I agree.

If you act like a friend, you will be her friend.

If you act like there is always the potential situation where your cock somehow might end up sliding in any of her holes by the end of the night, you just might end up there. Or see her again.

Guys who put girls on a pedestal and try to please them by trying to be what they think the girl wants them to be is a direct VIP invite to the Friend Zone Mansion, parking valet included.

Now I'm now saying be a piece of shit, but don't be ashamed to flirt with girls right away.

It's easy for any guy to point out fake ass pansies from accross the room, well it's even easier for girls who get hit on 50 times a day so just because you think you can spot lame dweebs trying to act their way into a vagina doesn't mean you aren't one of them to her.

i've been in "friendzone" with girls before, but that's when i was younger and didn't know shit about girls. i realized that happened since i was being somewhat of a little bitch about it. after that realization it hasn't happened since.

so, i don't think friendzone exists. i think some guys act like little bitches. if you let women think they can get what they want out of you without having to date you, then you're going to get taken advantage of. just don't be a bitch.

@ JoeyV i disagree. i've always had female friends. thing is, i never wanted to sleep with them. as long as you have common interests, you can be friends with anyone imo.

I agree averything RJ, Kigro and thePapi said ITT.

VroomX2 said:

i've been in "friendzone" with girls before, but that's when i was younger and didn't know shit about girls. i realized that happened since i was being somewhat of a little bitch about it. after that realization it hasn't happened since.

so, i don't think friendzone exists. i think some guys act like little bitches. if you let women think they can get what they want out of you without having to date you, then you're going to get taken advantage of. just don't be a bitch.

@ JoeyV i disagree. i've always had female friends. thing is, i never wanted to sleep with them. as long as you have common interests, you can be friends with anyone imo.

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Just for reference, when I say "friend," I mean someone you can call at any hour of the night to come pick you up at the police station. You can't build this type of relationship with only 1 point of interest, and it certainly can't be with a member of the opposite sex.

It's cool if we don't agree, that's what opinions and discussion boards are for.

Friend zone exists. Been there done that. Never been whipped though.
For example last year I was kind of dating this chick. Then she got weird and got back with her ex. They broke up a few days before I met her and it happened about two weeks later. I was pissed kind of but I understood. Decided to keep in touch because I have a theory that if you broke up it's for a reason and it wont work out the second time.
It lasted about 2 weeks then she came crying to me since I was in that middle zone. We dated again a bit then she says she's going out with somebody else but she wants to stay friends with me.
I said goodbye in a very mean way and told her I couldn't be friends with a girl that just jumps around from guy to guy not really caring what their feelings are.
She proceeded to cry. I apologized and walked away knowing I was a BAMF for not letting myself get sucked into the friend zone.

I mean no disrespect when saying this, but you can't be a little pussy ass bitch. If she says she wants to be friends or anything like that, come out of the hole you're hiding in and tell her you want to be more than friends. Don't stick around after.
Leave.
Maybe she realizes how great of a guy you are.
Maybe not.
I'd rather be down for a couple days with it not having worked out than living with regret.


^^This is all from a guy that's never really had a serious girlfriend, so I might be a complete idiot.

Desperation = FZ its that simple its not about being rich goodlooking or wtv, its the fact that if you're an ass kissing desperate fuck you're not gonna get very far with the girl
i remember when i had just started dating i was tall and skinny little kid, all the other kids had started lifting and whatnot but that didnt stop me from chasing girls. Did i get rejected? almost all the time. Did i get FZ? couple times ya. BUT i learned from these experiences, i learned what i liked and didnt like in girls, learned about myself and became more confident in myself.
I think at the end of the day its just about knowing yourself and becoming comfortable with who you are, once you got your confidence up and some good social skills you can get any girl, and if she doesnt think youre good enough for her then fuck that bitch she's probably got aids or some shit

JoeyV said:

Note to DJD&G, if you've seen the junk, you're not in the friend-zone. You're a special ops soldier. lol. Also, that girl is a whore.

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HAHAHAHA LMAO! special ops soldier xD

back on topic.

No I'm really in the friend zone that's why i'm saying it's really weird lol.

for example:Whenever she needs to fix something on her car she calls me and like the good guy i am I don't ask her money(she pays the beer haha )

Everytime i got a gig at a club she's always following me even if it's 5 hour from here

She always txt me good morning

We always go out together + our common friends

You see where i am? it's been like this for 5 years now.lol The thing is...5 years later i'm fucking tired of this!! it's just idk weird lol




Maybe I'm in love?!?



Btw sorry for tl:dr

Yeah i understand, you're definitely looking for something else, perhaps love ?

Because you're saying yes everytime without complaining, she now considers you her BFF <3 more than anything else.

Best way to get out of this situation is to tell her, honestly, everything, and let her know that if she declines the love you will gtfo her life (Makes bitches think twice and harder).


But you banged her...so assuming you're not in love, it's really a question of not being her pocket dog, aka STOP SAYING YES EVERYTIME SHE NEEDS HELP.

No need to be a jerk saying no..a simple "Im busy with a friend" will make her go look for another potential whiteknight victim.

We all know friend zone exist

For me the defenition of Friend Zone is a guy who is afraid of loosing someone.

Usually when you are complaining about being friend zone its because you are really in love with the girl. You try everything possible to please her so she might fall in love with you. You are so afraid of the rejection so you wait too long before making a move (kiss etc.).

In my opinion if you dont want to be friendzone anymore, 2 thing you need to know: first, make your intention clear from the start, and that come with accepting the fact you might be rejected, second, be yourself, dont try to become the guy of her dream, in the long run this is not gonna be great.

Ive been friend zone one time in my life, i really loved that girl, but one day i had to tell her that i wanted more, she said No and we moved on. At least i didnt waste too much time. But i didnt make any move, cause i was too scared of being rejected.

Now today, i usually make a move on the second date (kiss or more), no need to wait further, if the girl still wanna see you on the second date its usually a pretty good sign she is interested

RaptorJesus said:

Telling a girl off then apologizing is hardly a bad ass motherfucker moment man. come on lol

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"I'm sorry but that won't change how I feel, so the door's right over there. Call me when you get your shit together but even then I'll never trust you again."

It's a badass apology. Now if you take her in your arms like a best friend forever, she really has you by the balls.